I AM WOMAN: Book Review

March 26, 2016 BLOG, BOOK REVIEWS, Memoir, WRITING3

BOOK REVIEW:

I AM WOMAN by Daliah Husu

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For me, as a reader, there’s nothing more satisfying than picking up a book  I just can’t put down. That usually only happens if the book is a thriller or a mystery written by a very skilled writer. It rarely happens when I read a memoir. So what a treat to pick up Daliah Husu’s “I am Woman” and find myself turning pages at “thriller speed”.

Not that “I am Woman” is a thriller, but for someone who is relatively unfamiliar with, and curious about what it is like to be born male and, and as an adult, transition fully into a female, I was enthralled by what Daliah Husu shared about her life. What was even better, was that she has the skill to write a memoir as if she were writing fiction. I haven’t found that talent with many memoirists.  I had to pinch myself a few times to realize I was reading a true story.

A lot happens to Daliah in “I am Woman”. After Daliah is born, as a boy, into Dominican poverty, her birth mother leaves him to be raised by her grandmother, only to summon him some years later to live in comparative wealth in the US. But after a divorce a few years later, as he’s constantly getting into trouble, his mother sends him back to an upper crust Dominican boarding school. As Dalia grows, her many moves from place to place, and eventually from job to job once back in the US, parallel the inner transition from male to female. Keeping nothing back, Daliah Husu shares it all: dancing in gay bars, snorting cocaine, holding top-level management jobs, being arrested for prostitution and more. “I am Woman” discloses everything openly, honestly and emotionally. Daliah simultaneously loves and hates her life, looking for love of herself and others in all the wrong places, fighting internal and external demons all the way, yet never feeling sorry for herself. As a result, she earns the reader’s full respect.

The stunning Daliah Husu
The stunning Daliah Husu

The most satisfying memoirs are those that relate a story of overcoming struggles and finding oneself in the process. Even more satisfying are those where, by the end of the journey, protagonists are, at last, at peace with themselves. They have come to love the beautiful person inside.

In “I am Woman”, Dalia Husu emerges a multiple winner: she finds peace, learns to love herself, meets a loving soulmate and partner, and discovers her talent as a writer. She also earns a new fan: me. I look forward to reading more by this remarkable woman and thank her for enlightening me about the difficulties faced by members of the LGTBQ community.

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3 thoughts on “I AM WOMAN: Book Review

  1. Daliah Husu

    March 27, 2016

    First, I would like to express my gratitude to Viga Boland for writing this incredible review on my book, I AM WOMAN. It is an immense honor to be rewarded this way by another author and to see that my words have left a positive impact on another’s life.

    As I read the review, I thought, “Wow! Funny how we, as writers, underestimate ourselves and our work and how others, often, appreciate us more than we do ourselves.” Viga Boland certainly showed me that kind of appreciation. Not only did I receive a fantastic review, but I also received a lesson in self-confidence. This review, and all of the help Viga willingly offered me today, has shown me the importance of working together as independent authors and giving praise were praise is deserved. So, in return, I would like to return that praise to Viga by encouraging everyone who reads this post to send her a message of gratitude and encouragement, so she can continue to do the wonderful work she is doing here on VIANVI.COM and MEMOIRABILIA.

    Thank you, Viga, for making me a more confident writer!

    • Viga Boland

      March 27, 2016

      ah Daliah, how beautifully written. You deserved my praise and support and I’m happy to give it. I love encouraging others as I know how great we all can be with encouragement. I also know how motivating it is to receive feedback from our peers. It sure keeps me going. Thank you for reciprocating by commenting here. To our futures … wherever we choose to go with them.

  2. Daliah Husu

    March 28, 2016

    To our futures! Cheers!

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